Travel Like a Local

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If you’re anything like me, you’ve probably outgrown the cookie-cutter tourist experience right? The real magic of travel comes when you can sink into the local vibe, without sacrificing the luxury you’re used to. Forget the guidebook spots and crowded landmarks. Traveling like a local means getting dirty and exploring the hidden gems of a place where the culture feels alive, not curated.

Stay in Neighborhoods, Not Hotels

First off, let’s talk about where you’re staying. Hotels are great, sure, but if you want to feel like you’re part of the city, you must stay in a local neighborhood. Think about it, waking up in a sleek penthouse overlooking the streets of Rome or a cozy loft in a trendy Parisian quarter. Platforms like Airbnb Luxe or Plum Guide have some seriously amazing places that offer all the luxury of a high-end hotel but with that “live-like-a-local” feel. Staying in Penthouse Apartments means you’re not just visiting a city, you’re living in it, if only for a while.

Engage with Local Experts

Ever felt like the usual tours just skim the surface of what there really is to see? Same here. That’s why local guides are such an investment when you travel because instead of joining a massive group to visit the same old tourist spots, they really know the city. Websites like With locals or Context Travel hook you up with local experts who can create custom experiences based on your personal interests, isn’t that great! Whether you’re into hidden art galleries, underground food scenes, or historical landmarks no one else knows about, these guides will help you get to the heart of the city.

Dine Where Locals Dine

Food is everything when it comes to truly experiencing a place and it’s culture. Sure, Michelin-starred restaurants are great (who doesn’t love a fancy meal?), but sometimes the best meals are found in those tucked-away spots only the locals know about. Family-run bistros, hole-in-the-wall sushi joints, or that tiny bakery with pastries to die for, are the places where the real flavor of the city comes through.

One trick? Ask your host or concierge for their go-to spots. Skip the big names and find out where they like to eat and what are their favorites.

Slow Down and Observe

Here’s a little secret: one of the best ways to feel like a local is to simply slow down and take everything in. Resist the urge to jam-pack your itinerary with back-to-back activities. Sometimes, the magic of a city lies in its quiet moments, the ones you only notice when you’re not rushing from one sight to the next. Maybe take a leisurely stroll through a park, spend an afternoon people-watching at a café, or even browse local markets without a schedule.

Support Local Artisans

Shopping is always a to-do when traveling. But not the touristy kind. I’m talking about finding unique, handcrafted pieces that tell a story. Local artisans are the heart of a city’s culture, and buying from them supports that creativity. It could be a beautifully crafted leather bag in Florence, a one-of-a-kind piece of jewelry in Istanbul, or hand-thrown pottery in Kyoto, these treasures are so much more meaningful than generic souvenirs.

When you support local craftsmanship, you take home a piece of the place itself, something that has meaning. It’s a way to remember not just where you went but the people who live there and the stories they shared through their art.

Amanda Keeley-Thurman, HotMamaTravel

Written by Amanda Keeley-Thurman

Amanda is a Southern California mom of two who believes family travel should be fun, honest, and just a little bit spicy. She's been exploring the world with her kids since 2015 and sharing every real, imperfect adventure on HotMamaTravel.

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